INTERPRETATION
The way that birthday parties have changed over the years follows the way
society has evolved. The values that were present in the fifties and
sixties are not necessarily the same ones present today. My only
direct experience with suburban birthday parties has been restricted to
the eighties. My conclusions about parties earlier on in the fifties and
sixties have developed as a result of research into both the topic and the
time period, instead. I feel that the main interpretations to come from
this project center on the changing relationship between children and
their parents.
These days it is necessary to have a two income family to maintain the
desired standard of living. Therefore in the nineties there are many more
working mothers than there were in the fifties. Parents now seem to have
many more pressures affecting them. They have increased pressures at
work, and more obligations to their children's activities. It is a
constant rush from here to there, and back again. Every family members
day ends at a different time, and the family does not all eat dinner at
the same time. In the fifties the family usually all sat down at the
table and ate together. My project on Dinnertime
in Greenbelt studies the changes that have taken place in this social
activity. Then in the evening, the family often did some
activity together. Now every one has their own things to do, and there
is just a lot less tome spent together. This lack of quality time
between children and their parents is evident in the changes birthday
parties have undergone in the past forty years. All the decorations,
party favors and food are bought ready-made, rather than made at home.
It is even possible to get an entire pre-designed party over the
internet, for example
USA Party.
Parents also know less about the families of the children that are
friends with their own children. This is also due to the rush of current
day life. There is just not enough time to stop and find these things
out. I believe that in order for children and parents to have good
relationships again; there needs to be a large increase in the amount of
quality time spent together.
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